Am I a hypocrite for not liking my husband masturbating when I do it at least twice a day?

My husband has worked flat out recently and we've had a real lull in our life. He tells me he loves me everyday and is very attentive with making meals etc but we're not having like we used to. We are having about once a month. I feel quite low about it and having a ridiculously high -drive I'm masturbating all the time. When I go to bed early and leave him downstairs I feel paranoid that he is masturbating. We have had twice this past week as he has said that we will have to get back into it again. I love him deeply and know that he is exhausted; so much so that he is asleep on sofa each night about 8pm. Help me...